The Thanksgiving List

Every other year, a large portion of my family gathers at a cabin near the smoky mountains for a couple of days of rest, relaxation, and family fellowship. It is a time that I always look forward to, and has created and continues to create many memories.  Although this is a relaxing time, amidst the stress of the last stretch of school, my brain is far past the point of creating cohesive thoughts, so instead, I have a simple list of things I am thankful for. It’s nothing special, but sometimes these things just need to be put into words.

My lord and savior Jesus Christ. One, because I wouldn’t be here (literally) without him, and two, because it wouldn’t be a real thanksgiving list if I didn’t include Him.

My family. Full of life, love, laughter, and constant support. I have never doubted their commitment and faithfulness to me. Though miles may separate us, I am always thankful to see how little we have drifted apart.


Male role models. From my brother, to my dad, to my uncles, to mentors to youth pastors to professors, I have never had a shortage of incredible men to look up and aspire to. They have made the path to Biblical manhood a little easier by blazing the path ahead of me.

The one and only, Matt Bucy.

My boo thang. (Or, “Girlfriend” for those of you who are not quite as in touch with hip-hop culture as I am). If you haven’t met JoBeth Collins yet, you need to. Seriously, she rocks. I couldn’t ask for a more faithful, encouraging, kind-hearted, fun loving, adventurous, caring, and Godly woman to walk alongside of me through the ups and downs of life.  She has never met a stranger, and her personality brings joy to anyone that she meets.  Smiles and laughter follow her everywhere she goes. Heck, I can’t bring her around UTC too often because pretty soon she will have more friends in Chattanooga than I do!  Even if she is a stinkin’ Vol, I can’t help but to be thankful for her.

Seriously. She’s awesomejobethandkid

-BYX. I will forever be thankful for the men of this brotherhood. It is made up of some friends I have had since the 6th grade, and some that I met just a couple of months ago. These guys continually push me towards Christ and challenge me to be a more Godly man. They have helped make Chattanooga feel a little bit more like home, and they have given me a fellowship of men that I know will last far beyond my college years. Turns out that fraternity life isn’t so bad.

My “little brother” Joey Wallace.

Cadence Coffee Company. Just two short months ago I had a vague idea of what espresso was, and had never ordered anything except regular coffee from a coffee shop. Now, I’m a barista. Not necessarily a very talented barista, but a barista nonetheless. Seriously though, this has been much more than a job. It has inspired a passion within me, and the staff has become like another family to me. I could not ask for a better place to work, and I look forward to many more years with them.

Yeah, I work here.

Outside. Seriously, look outside, its incredibles. Trees, mountains, streams, clouds, grass, dirt, bushes, weeds, flowers, whatever. It is incredible, and it is a constant reminder of God’s beauty. I will forever be thankful for the opportunity to explore the outdoors in my own city and in areas around me. More than that, I am thankful that God instilled within me a passion for the outdoors.

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Edwards Point in Chattanooga, TN.

I pray that I never cease to be thankful for these things, and that more than once a year I would take the time to reflect on these things and take joy in my thankfulness.

What is on your thankfulness list this year?